Surprise, surprise!

Banging my head ....
HARD.

Oh wow!

An OB who dosn't condone homebirth?

I wasn't a very good person in my comment.... wonder if she'll even dare to publish it?

to be perfectly fair... she did so publish it! whoa.....
secondly I was a good person. I didn't demand if the uterine rupture mother had been induced at her suggestion? Or how many iotrogenic c/s's she had caused in her practice so far... or heck, what is her c/s rate? Seeing as she obviously wouldn't dare allow for vbac's after the horrors she has seen!
SNORT.... yeah. I was good. Pat pat pat on the back for me.

Sometimes the truth hurts...

So... yeah. huh. I opened my big mouth again...
Yes, shut up mom to monsters... enough already... but seriously, people have got to smarten up!!!!

This has caused quite the ruckus...

I chose to use Ms. Anna "your uterus is gonna bust wide open with the hugeness of this baby" Nicole Smith in my commentary...
Ginormous baby my a$$! Okay, so my a$$ is ginormous but Dannilynn was not. Neither was the spinal medication... wanna see a celebrity c/s. You Tube has it! Here you go.

Anyhoo. The editors at CBB chose not to allow my comment. I'm a little perturbed. I mean c'mon if cesareans were so safe and wonderful... why are women being pressured to wait to add to their family dynamic 'please wait X amount of time before conceiving again, then we can schedule you for surgery before there is ever a chance of you going into labour, and baby being ready to be born' blink blink blink... baaaaa lets all be sheeple!
Really, how many multiple cesarean mothers are being asked before and even during their elective scheduled caesareans if they want their tubes tied? If it was so safe... why the limit and timing on a woman's fertility?

Sometimes the truth hurts... especially when people actually question why you figure your baby is too big and you are too small*
... or if there just wasn't any progress... whatever. Failure to progress... how about failure to help mom get baby in to a good position to do that dive? How about failure to wait?

Not to worry, this isn't the first time a comment has been neglected.
I personally despise the word caesarean birth when describing m1's entrance in to the world. It was nothing of the sort.
Documented as a surgical removal of term fetus.
Yup, got me a copy of that little quote.
yes, if I have a client who has a surgical birth, then so it shall be.... not my place to rub my issues on someone else!

*Truth be told, it is only when you are dead and de-fleshed that your pelvis can truely be measured to see if that baby really was too ginormous for your iddy bitty body.... I'm not kidding!

Under the title of....

Thank GOD no one ever asked the mom to monsters this when she was pregnant...
*by the way, the comment I left... I held back. REALLY AND TRUELY! I DID! I SWEAR....